Saturday, August 30, 2008

农家乐

乖爸乖妈乖爷乖奶皆喜城市生活,但在钢筋丛林中呆久了也会想要换换口味,特别是当城里满街满巷都是休劳动节长假的游客时,不禁怀念起郊外的空间,绿地和距离。要避世咱就得走得远远的,至少得到另一个洲吧,于是锁定印第安纳洲的Billy Boy’s Blueberry Barn(其实也就一个小时的车程)。

由于乖妈睡懒觉,抵达蓝莓园时已是近午,骄阳辣日且蓝莓也因为季节将过没有想象中的大,但大家的兴致一点不改。尽管烈日炎炎但乖小宝可是个尽责的好帮手喔,背着小桶认真地找“大粒的”,不像某人觉得蓝莓太小采摘麻烦采一会就和园主聊天乘凉去了。

奶奶趁机给乖小宝解释这就是所谓的“锄禾日当午,汗滴禾下土”,怪不得妈妈觉得这蓝莓虽小但特别的甜和新鲜,:-) 原来是自己劳动所得。果园行着实是一项老少皆宜的活动,有机会接近自然还有胜利果实可以带走,妈妈已经开始蠢蠢欲动谋划下一个果园之旅了。

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

师资问题

乖小宝回家带回一封信,她们班上又有两个老师要离职,其中小人和妈妈都很喜欢的班主任Ms Jacky也因为摔倒要病退, 算下来这已经是乖宝班上两三个月内第四个老师离任。

妈妈有些琢磨不透,是运气不好没挑到好学校呢还是这是美国学校的通病。乖宝呆过的三个学校老师都换得勤,特别是老师助理换得有如走马灯似的。Turnover rate居高不下,学生好不容易和老师培养出感情又得适应下一个老师。奶奶说中国幼儿老师大多很稳定一般从小班一直带到大班,要是这样该多好呀。郁闷呀。

据说这在美国很普遍,主要是因为preschool老师工作辛苦待遇不好的原因。工作当然是辛苦不过学费交得可不少,象以前的MAC学校开业没几个月就已盈利。为何待遇上不去?即使要加学费,如果可以避免勤换老师大多家长应该也会支持吧。以己之力很难对师资问题有任何影响,家长唯一可以做的大概就是给家中的小朋友多做心理建设习惯变化吧。

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

迎头赶上(五) - 意外收获

爷爷来后没多久就教会乖小宝一百内数数, 看到老人家随手指个数字小人就象电脑似的报数,不得不佩服老人家的功力就是不一样。爷爷真威风呀。

但妈妈也很快发现一个新问题:由于爷爷的教育深刻,乖小宝现在看到数字脑海里的第一反应是中文,因此英文数数大退步。特别是老记不得二十几和三十几怎么念,坚持称它们为“two-ty-xx"和"three-ty-xx"。妈妈花了好几个晚上纠正,但任凭妈妈讲的口干舌燥乖小宝仍是非常有原则地“说自己的数,让别人去说吧”。妈妈心灰意冷后奶奶自动拾起教棒,利用每天上下学的时间和小人一起反复念。 奶奶这种润物细无声的做法好像比较有效,不仅乖小宝总算开窍,最伟大的功绩应该是**对英文深恶痛绝的爷爷**竞也在日日熏陶下学会用英文数数!对原来英文单词量不超过两只手的爷爷来说这是个多大的突破呀,单词量一下就扩增十倍!:-)

Monday, August 25, 2008

拓展友谊

说过乖小宝到新学校后转性了,其后的日子里不断听爷爷奶奶宣扬小人在playground的新“丰功伟绩”。开始是听到小人喜欢凑热闹扎堆儿,总跟在一帮大小孩屁股后面疯跑;再然后是开始逗弄欺负比自己小的孩子;再然后是竟敢一个人单挑几个小男生! 这变化也太快了吧,妈妈有些难适应,当然更多的是好奇小人是如何发展这些“友谊”的。

这个周末妈妈有机会得以见识一番。周末游玩泳回家的路上经过一个playgound,已经累得不行的小人要求进去“走一圈”。爸爸妈妈记得小人前一秒还说很累要妈妈抱的这时候倒又不累了,乖小宝很坚持地告诉妈妈“进去走一圈我就不累了”,那就权且听信一回吧。

一进去小人先打量一下形势,然后把目标锁定在两个差不多年纪的亚洲小男生。乖小宝开始一圈圈地从两个亚洲小男生面前走过,每一圈比上一次更接近一些,到最后简直是站在小男生边上。经过两人时小人还口中念念有词(不是开口邀请他们一起玩之类应该只是想说话引起注意力),弄得两个小男生蠢蠢欲动。但不知这两个小朋友是否也属于害羞型的缘故,不像其他小朋友易受“勾引”,乖小宝最终没能如常等到小朋友的“一拍即合”。妈妈不忍心看小人在烈日骄阳下如此折腾,正准备上前帮助拓展“外交”但因为人家的妈妈要离开而作罢。

虽然没有成功,而且方式有改进的空间(说起来这其实应归于爸爸妈妈的疏忽指导),但妈妈还是很高兴看到小人积极拓展友谊。乖小宝要继续加油喔!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Bubble Fun

据说它会自己吹泡泡,但我小心翼翼地捧着它半天却不见一个泡泡。。。

等了许久许久,爸爸妈妈都以为买到次品时它总算开始吐泡泡了!

这一吐就不可收拾。。。不用自己吹泡泡还可以享受到追逐泡泡的乐趣太赞了!

奥运马后炮

虽然年幼的乖小宝对奥运会全无概念也不感兴趣,但此次奥运在中国举行,和乖小宝就不是全无关联所以妈妈希望为乖小宝记下点什么。

NBC主持人Bob Costas在北京奥运后的Closing remarks算是少有的不偏不倚,又概括了中美两队此次的表现所以为乖小宝摘录于此算是一段历史记载吧。

Well, just as the marathon was one of the concluding events of the Olympic Games, we are now bringing our broadcast marathon to a close. Beyond the competitive drama, every Olympics provides a snapshot of a city and a country at a point in time. This one was more compelling than most, since China's rise and its ongoing transformation is the global story, not only of the moment, but likely of the foreseeable future.

These Olympics were a milestone in that still unfolding story. And while history will tell us whether or not the Olympics provided China with the confidence to not only build on its considerable strengths, but also to address its considerable problems. This much we know.

This is a country so vast, a people with lives so varied and a history so rich and complex that no visitor can fully grasp it. Still, of these Games, no advanced degree in international relations was required to appreciate the genuine warmth of the Chinese people, the honest pride in their country a nd how seriously Chinese citizens, famous Olympians, to everyday men and women, took this chance to show themselves to the world.All Olympics are important to the host city.

These Games were monumentally important to the host nation, which happens to be home to 1/5 of humanity. All that said, just as these Olympics were significant politically, they were also very significant competitively. Beijing turned out to be among the most memorable Olympics ever.One headline was anticipated before the Games began, and then verified here. For the first time since the fall of the Berlin Wall, an ongoing Olympic rivalry shapes up.

In Beijing, the U.S. won 110 medals-the most it's ever won at a non-American Olympics. But China, second in the overall count, easily won the most golds here, and the most by any country since the old Soviet Union in 1988. Many of China's triumphs went beyond excellence. Their perfection and precision, simply beautiful to behold.China is now a sports power with a sophisticated state-supported sports system. They will be at or near the top of the medal list at London and beyond.

Meanwhile, the Americans had plenty to cheer about. Beach volleyball pairs both prevailing, Nastia Liukin and Shawn Johnson winning gold and winning hearts, the men's basketball team doing exactly what they set out to do-winning, yes-but also redeem and redefine the image and purpose of the U.S. program.These Games reached multiple crescendos.

From the beginning, there was Michael Phelps, who now ranks among the very greatest Olympians ever and who is also now in the top tier of the best and most popular contemporary athletes in any sport-unheard of for a swimmer, until Phelps.Just about the time Phelps left the pool, a Jamaican jet zoomed over the track. The sprints are supposed to be decided by blinks of an eye, not by bolts of speed so astonishing that, like the spectators, the competitors can only marvel at the world's-- and history's--fastest man.

More nations, 204, participated here than in any Games before.And more won medals, 87, than ever before as well.But beyond the medal podium, the Olympics remain a human panorama, with many also-- ran finishes and first-round eliminations, nonetheless representing epic personal stories, only appreciated by the participants themselves and their families, friends and countrymen.

Theses Games began with Zhang Yimou's stunning Opening Ceremony, so boldly conceived and brilliantly executed, that it set a standard for such occasions unlikely to be equaled. And tonight, with more theatrical touches, the curtain came down. So the people of the world came to Beijing, and the people of China extended their hands. You don't have to speak a word of Mandarin to understand that.

I've been fortunate to be involved with many memorable Olympics, and in many ways, this has been the most memorable. In no small part, due to the efforts of the small army of people who worked tirelessly to bring these Gam es home to you. For these colleagues, I will always have enormous professional regard and personal gratitude.The names of these talented men and women accompany this final montage of the images of China and Olympic moments-moments we hope resonate with you as they have with us. Good night, this one last time, from China.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

父女情

乖小宝和爸爸通电话说“Daddy I want to make sure you don't get sick", 爸爸逗小人要怎样才可以保证爸爸不生病?小人答:“I just clap my hands"?!

昨晚乖小宝又在睡前和奶奶一唱一和读着姨妈寄来的唐诗小人书(妈妈才说对唐诗宋词不感冒却接连自打嘴巴不停地写,谁让这是奶奶教的必修课呢?)。当读到登鹳雀楼这一首时,小人和奶奶说“这是我爸爸教我的”,乖乖这记性真不错。小人还坚持要抱着这一页睡觉,因为要留给爸爸回来看。小人一定是想爸爸了,爸爸也很想乖小宝喔,马上就是周末小人又可以和爸爸玩了。

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

迎头赶上(四)

爷爷奶奶没来芝加哥前老两口就自己分工决定爷爷教乖小宝数学奶奶教中文。爷爷一丝不苟严格按计划执行所以目标早早完成。反观奶奶呢,自定目标是教乖宝认二百个中文单字,想跟奶奶说这是Mission Impossible但奶奶当时自信满满妈妈没胆泼冷水。果然几个月过后的结果就是如爷爷几个星期前嘲笑奶奶所说的:这都要回去了乖小宝认得的中国字还不超过一双手。

受爷爷的刺激奶奶决定一定要在回去前教小人点什么 - 要不回去后还不得经常被爷爷在亲友面前亏:-)。两百个单字在短时间里是没戏了,只有另谋捷径。奶奶可能看到在船上时小人轻而易举学会一首古诗于是把目标改为教小人背古诗。妈妈表明自己对让小朋友背诵唐诗宋词的怀疑态度,但妈妈的观点一如既往地在爷爷奶奶面前基本上是不作数的, :-)于是乖小宝也开始加入背唐诗的行列,只是奶奶保证不是单纯的背,还会给小人讲解诗的含义。

象要印证妈妈的观点似的,教小朋友唐诗真不是件难事,不到一个星期小人就可以朗朗上口好几首,这让奶奶很得意。乖小宝好像也蛮喜欢背,时不时念上几句,大概把它们当作童谣,不过对诗的理解大多还停留在一知半解的阶段。妈妈有发现这唐诗背了后乖小宝用词丰富了。比如看妈妈碗里还有饭粒会说“妈妈要粒粒皆辛苦喔”。看到野鸭在河里,小人会问这怎么不是白毛浮绿水呀(答案:因为这是一只黑鸭不是白鹅)。

好吧背诵唐诗也许并不是全无用处,但这还是不能阻止妈妈在奶奶教乖小宝古诗时暗自嘀咕这是在做无用功,妈妈的凭据是妈妈仍能记得的古诗是可怜的寥寥无几。当然这嘀咕只能是偷偷的,在奶奶面前妈妈可是个好女儿,怎么着也不能影响奶奶回去交差呀。 :-)

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Mother vs. Mommy

乖小宝对家里人之间的关系及称呼琢磨得很清楚并广泛运用于日常对话中,于是经常会听到如此发言- “奶奶,你的孩子(指妈妈)不听话没有给我讲故事耶”,“妈妈,你的爸爸叫你吃饭了”。和乖小宝讲不用如此费劲道尽关系但小人充耳不闻继续我讲我素。

这就罢了,最近小人开始称呼妈妈为“Mother”而不是“mommy”。这样中世纪的正规叫法让妈妈顿觉老了几十岁,才刚刚萌芽的中年危机感好像又加深了一些。:-)原以为这又是一次“出疹子”马上就会过去,可妈妈等了几天这“疹子”好像一点消下去的迹象都没有。

无法,妈妈只有想办法为自己正名。先问小人为什么叫妈妈mother,小人回答“因为我是princess啊”。喔,明白了,原来是barbie的DVD看多了学起人家公主称呼起王后来了,不过乖小宝你爸爸不是国王所以妈妈当然也不是王后耶。妈妈忍不住表达了自己不喜欢被称作mother。小人听了用两只胖乎乎的小肉手把妈妈的脸握住转正,眼对眼严肃地跟妈妈说“mother, they are the same,mommy and mother are the same”,意思是要识大体不要挑三掂四就是了。乖小宝你就不可以稍微慰藉一下想抓住青春的尾巴的妈妈吗?

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

馋猫

乖小宝和爷爷奶奶在公园玩。小人眼尖看到奶奶包里还有一块饼干,马上眼睛一亮要求奶奶“share”。没有得到回应小人可怜兮兮地说“给我吃吧,我很饿”,好像被虐待成非洲难民似的。当奶奶指出小人三分钟之前才吃点心肚子不会饿时,小人眼也不眨拍拍胸前两点和脖子回答道“但我这里还很饿”。言下之意刚才的点心只够填满肚子,还未有满到肚子之上的部位。乖小宝,你拍错了,改拍嘴才是。

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

甘为“斗米”折腰

乖小宝和妈妈腻在沙发上聊天,妈妈问乖小宝这一天在学校里过得如何。乖小宝开始都有问有答,等妈妈问到中午吃什么这些没有营养的问题(其实妈妈知道问了也是白问,因为小人每次的回答都是面包和牛奶),小人不耐烦了,开始学猫叫并告诉妈妈自己是小猫,而“小猫是不会讲话的”。

好吧,不想理妈妈是吗,那就别怪妈妈“认养”志荣姨的女儿加伦姐姐作女儿了。通常这是很有效的一招,因为小人是不允许妈妈有二心的。但显然小人开始对妈妈的种种招数有免疫,小人继续喵喵叫一点也不在意妈妈所说。没有办法,妈妈只好用自今百试百灵的一招,那就是用零食做诱饵。果然一听妈妈只给“女儿”吃冰淇淋,小人马上改舷易辙要求重新“做人”,小猫就留给加伦姐姐当吧。

不知道别的小朋友是否也如是,乖小宝只要有零食就可以气质全无毫无原则可言,真让人担心不要太容易被人拐走喔。和乖小宝讲没有家里人同意不能吃陌生人的东西,但小人一句为什么就能让妈妈语拙只有搪塞几句了事。要怎么和小朋友解释这个世界并不全是好人呢,不忍心破坏小朋友的美好童话世界呀。

Monday, August 11, 2008

童声合唱

奶奶前几天总结家中除了民姐姐外生日全在下半年,可不是,由乖爸起头,随后的几个月每个月都有人要庆生。

这不这个周末轮到爷爷了。。。


蛋糕,鲜花,礼物,party,庆祝生日的种种全部备全,但让爷爷最得意的是乖小宝和姐姐在电话中合唱生日歌为爷爷祝寿。中美两地同声合唱,对有孙万事全的爷爷来说是最宝贵的生日礼物。在那一刻妈妈也体会到为什么中国人会推崇多子多福, 老了多一个小辈唱生日歌那感觉真不坏!

乖爸你有动摇吗? :-)

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

三岁八个月

很难相信乖小宝快四岁了!

三岁八个月的乖小宝在这几个月里身高体重持续增长,随着运动量的增大着实结实许多。虽然不算肥胖儿,但妈妈不禁有些担心这些婴儿肥以后会否消失。

性格上乖小宝是一个很娇很嗲很女生的小姑娘。开始向往当公主(乖小宝你一直且永远是爸爸妈妈心中的小公主呀), 也开始喜欢穿裙子,因为乖小宝认为公主都是穿裙子的。每每给乖小宝穿上裙子小人总要转几圈自诩为公主,经过有尖尖屋顶的房子时乖小宝总会comment这是公主住的。每天早上起床后小人总要把沙发垫围成一圈然后站在里面假想自己是个公主站在城堡里。What a good way to start a day! :-)

爱“臭美”的乖小宝现在喜欢有长长的头发,要求奶奶和妈妈帮把头发扎得低低的因为这样马尾就可以放在胸前了。乖小宝以为这样最美- 因为妈妈的头发都是放在胸前的。乖小宝目前审美标准是以妈妈为坐标,这让妈妈很不好意思,乖小宝你可知山外有山啊。:-)

同样地乖小宝对妈妈的高跟鞋爱不释手,没事喜欢溜到妈妈的衣帽间一双双地试,被妈妈制止时会可怜巴巴地说"让我试一下吧,我还没穿过这一双“。

语言上由于和爷爷奶奶朝夕相处,小人的中文表达这几个月有重大突破,对语言的掌握运用越来越好。但近朱者赤,小人不仅从爷爷那批发来浓浓的闽腔,现在甚至连说话的语气用词也颇具爷爷的特色,比如对一切好东西都称之为高级(“爷爷你可不可以给我根高级的笔?" - 乖小宝,那只是一支普通的圆珠笔耶)。闽腔也罢,妈妈希望爷爷奶奶回去后乖小宝的中文不会倒退。

三岁八个月的乖宝兴趣广泛,比以前更喜欢运动及户外活动,小单车骑得很溜。在家呢也极尽淘气之能事,手脚总也闲不住,拆过家中的躺椅也分解过小提琴,稍不注意就有意外发生。

但三岁八个月的乖小宝又是大家的开心果,每一天小人嗲声嗲气的精妙言论都带给大家不尽的惊喜和欢笑。

如果可以。。。乖小宝你不要这么快长大好不好?

Friday, August 1, 2008

慢慢转性?

过了开饭时间许久才等到爷爷奶奶接乖小宝放学回家。一问才知道乖小宝在playground里认识了新朋友不愿回家。奶奶说乖小宝和两个新朋友玩得很好,其中一位小妹妹鞋子掉了,还是乖宝热情地帮妹妹穿上的。对于家中这个慢熟的小朋友来说这真是最近才有的事。

以前老说乖小宝属于早熟的孩子, 因为乖小宝自小就偏爱和大人在一起,对小朋友不太感冒,除非是接触久了熟悉的小朋友。不过自从小人转到现在这个学校以后妈妈可以明显感觉到小人的转变,开始爱和小朋友一起玩并很快地在新班级交了几个好朋友。 即便是素不相识的小朋友,乖小宝一开始有时也许会有些羞涩,但也慢慢学着如何和生人打交道。这一切不知道是因为乖小宝大了的缘故还是自爷爷奶奶来后乖小宝天天在外泡接触多了,应该两者皆有吧。